13 Aralık 2009, Pazar
saat: 16:55
It's not like I can't handle a little opposition, it's just that it's little hard to take sometimes. There are always things that can't be compromised; but sometimes all I hear is him trashing everything I actually like. And he always feels the need to list every. single. reason why. Naturally, I get annoyed. Whenever he goes off on one of his rants about something I like, I can never tell if I should keep my mouth shut and question his ideas in my head or if I should stand up for myself and my opinions. If I just sit there, I end up just internalizing thoughts like, "I'd really like to throw something at him right now!" I also know that if I speak up and defend things I like, I'm most likely going to spend the next 3 hours arguing, and I just don't always have the energy for that. That's why I feel I need to learn picking my battles now. There will be issues to stand up and fight for, but some things are just not worth the long-winded-argument-that-leads-to-door-slamming-and-silent-treatment. We should be able to come to a truce on some things.
